the reasons why I can't go out more often at night time.

Dear friends,

I'm sorry if I often do not attend your party or events.

I'm sorry if I often reject any important meetings.

Or, I'm sorry if I often suddenly cancel our appointment in the last second.

I'm so sorry. I don't meant them.

I have some explanations behind those all.

first, I live in that house. not my house-- my mom's boss. My mom and I are living with the boss and her family. Yes, I'm a servant since I understood what kind of my mom's job is.

I can't go out from that house in the night time. Actually, I can go out sometimes, but I have the limit late hours which is 9.pm no more.

Maybe this reason doesn't make sense for you. But, it works for me.

We're living with that family almost 17 years, and as my exchange I need to serve my life to the Boss. Sounds like slavery? yes, it is!

So, if you want to ask me out, the first thing you have to think about are the time and the date, I'm available at noon, because i have reason to go to campus (so I can see you after class) :)

if weekend, probably I can't, My mom's boss is busy with church-thing, so she needs my helps.

the good news is if my mom's boss isn't at that house (going to abroad) Naaahh.. I can see you anytime, I can go out late :)

but, it rarely happen. :(

Oya, one more reason why I often suddenly cancel my appointment in the last second:

The boss often suddenly asks me to do something which I can't reject (yeah, just because I don't want to hear any complaints from her).

For example, I was ready to go out for important meeting with my campus friends (we're doing project at campus) , but while I was stepping my foots out of the door, she yelled my name, "Alfiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, please blablabalablabla.... would you?"

and, yeah, I remember I'm just a servant, so I was back inside that house. "Yes, Madam. Is there anything I can help?" ask me with politely.

enough for this confession, I don't hate my life, I'm trying to live in it. I also try to step out from this situation, I'll reach my dreams. soon. yes, soon.

I'm not complaining. I'm grateful. I know behind this all, there is good things for me. I believe God never sleeps. And mother Marry always listens to my pray. Amen.

regards,

Alfi

Give a few reasons why I should visit Jakarta?

To tell you the truth, there is no reason why you should visit Jakarta. It’s a crowded place, no air for breathing, pollution in everywhere, museums suck, a lot of beggars, and one thing you will not forget about Jakarta are the TRAFFIC JAMS. So, welcome to the jungle, where people will give you a fake smile because you are a foreigner, and be careful: many Indonesians like to take advantage of foreigners; of course I’m talking about money. :P

Well, besides those bad sides, Jakarta has many good places to visit. Having beers or a great time at a bar or club is a good idea to kill your night time. Jakarta is known for its nightlife. In this town, you will find malls easily.

I suggest that when you visit Indonesia, please also visit another town, such as Bali, Jogjakarta, Lombok, Bandung, etc. Jakarta is nothing special, only a town fully blocked by skyscrapers.

Don’t worry about the costs, in Indonesia everything is cheap. :P You’ll be rich as soon as you arrive at Soekarno Hatta Airport.

gimme questions, I'll answer as I could. :) I love questions, so lets asking!

whats your fav language ?

I love many languages. Of course, I do love my own language, BAHASA INDONESIA, thats why I choose its studies on my University. I've learn many languages such as Deutsch, Mandarin, English, and Italy. Basically, I don't have fav language, I love it all. when I was junior high school my fav language was Japanese, and when i was senior high school was Deutsch. And I loved Germany for some other reasons, :P
And now, after I'm majoring Indonesian Literature, I do love more and more my own language. but it doesn't make me to think Bahasa Indonesia is my fav. I just love. and love. nothing more.

gimme questions, I'll answer as I could. :) I love questions, so lets asking!

what pleases u most in bed?

oh anon, thats my secret, and never tell.
oya, for one more thing.
I think your grammar is not great as me. Where do you come from? just curious. Your english not like European or American. Sorry.

gimme questions, I'll answer as I could. :) I love questions, so lets asking!

Do you believe in luck?

i do believe in Luck! who doesnt?

i love question. So, Lets ask me!